![]() I’d love for him to be a part of it in some way. The toughest part of all this has been figuring out how to tell him. However, I’ve known for a while now that I’d have to at least try BBC once. My boyfriend Mark and I started dating back in 2015. It was written to everyone who’d been following me in the year or so that led up to this life-altering day. Later, we enliven the cage experience more, but that is another story.*I posted this on Tumblr. He wore the cage to work, the gym, and walking the dog. The presence of the cage, made this routine a little more lively. This gave him time to make my coffee, make the bed and do other household chores. For instance, I dressed first for work and he remained naked until I left the house. But what about the rest of the week which is filled with work and commitments? We had some rules to remind ourselves of his role. It gets into both of our heads and creates a fun dynamic. Many women complain that chastity devices are fun when there is sex involved, such as when I am meeting my date and my husband is caged. But he loved humiliation, so it was a mutual feeling. I got more interested in the device and used it for small humiliations. He learned not to interrupt me (or his key holder). He was more docile he was more obedient and listened carefully. He was now in chastity for much of the time. But the dynamic with my husband was forever changed. My relationship with them was unaffected and we remained close. However, our dinners became awkward her husband lost all respect for my husband and made it obvious. When it snowed, she would call and ask him to shovel her walk and backyard deck. ![]() Over time, she exercised it more and more. By accepting the key, she had a degree of control over my husband. In reality, the key changed the dynamics of our relationship and friendship with our neighbors. She also made it clear that her husband did not approve and that my husband would have to respect his feelings and live with the outcome. There would be no sexual activity of any kind between them except related to the cage. She made it clear that he was not to interfere in her marriage in any way. She asked him questions about the cage and his intentions. She took control right away and asked him to sit down and join us. When he brought in the coffee, he nearly jumped out of the room. I asked my husband to make coffee for us. I didn’t tell my husband, but simply invited her over for coffee about a week later. Unfortunately, her husband was not amused and was not willing to participate in any way. She immediately thought it would be great fun. I confided in her and asked her to be the key holder. Her husband was a runner and it was obvious that he was in good shape. We knew them pretty well and had the occasional dinner. We knew that she and her husband had a happy sexually fulfilling marriage - thanks to the common walls. We live in a city with row houses with common walls. She was (she moved later) an airline flight attendant and married to a successful engineer. Who did I recruit for this mission? My neighbor. However, at first I did keep the device secret. I made it explicit that I would not promise that I would keep his secret from my dates.
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